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An Explanation of the Theory and Practice of Hypnosis

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The essence of hypnosis is not to see, which is what the producers of stage hypnosis might claim, but rather to change the pattern of the reader’s mental capability. This ability of guiding the attention inward and directing it to the sound of directed suggestions has the power to unlock various forms of human behavior … Read more

Motivational Events

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The job of a Life Coach is to assist their client, or clients, to get back on the path to manifesting their wants and desires. Sometimes those wants and desires appear quantum leaps, but the definition of a quantum jump will be what comes to mind when you think of the term “a leap far … Read more

Training – Good vs Bad

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Training is just like life, it’s a fun and cherished journey that’s easy to be involved with. Many people choose to travel on a marathon, but experience failing to finish and that’s sad. Some people choose to travel on a marathon and finish, but in doing that, it will be a long trek and slow. … Read more

Overcoming Fear

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Have you ever been afraid? An Issues on the workplace ast threat to your career? From a relationship gossips to break up further? A business interview? A presentation or a beautiful sunset? Fear is part of us. It’s important for a balanced sense of wellbeing. But most of us have got it wrong. Fear is … Read more

Are Your Goals Attainable?

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Your goals may not be attainable. That doesn’t mean that they are unachievable… just not possible for you right now. If you are making realistic, short term goals and you have the enthusiasm and belief to make them happen, then they are attainable. However, if you set rigid, long term goals with an unrealistic time … Read more

Building Self-Confidence With Short Quotes

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It happens in all walks of life: our conversations with ourselves, each other and sometimes even with people surrounding us. Don’t we feel shy, unsure of ourselves, insecure? Don’t we have a destiny to fulfill, goals that we want to accomplish? Then how on earth can we have these issues? It’s because we lack in … Read more

Five Ways To Overcome Addictions And Become Free

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For over 30 years, I had been a recovering alcoholic and addict–and began my journey into recovery officially when I submitted the Inner Bonding program of The Twelve Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous, along with a 12 Step recover, “The Big Book,” to my Higher Power. I’d taken other approaches that were outside the context of … Read more

Start Living Your Solution – Part 1

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Sometimes we get into situations or circumstances that we do not want to be in. When you find yourself in a relationship or a job that you do not enjoy, it is a good chance to re-evaluate yourself. The way you feel about your situation and what you are doing to change yourself are very … Read more

A Powerful NLP Skill – Metaphor

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Like many people, you likely have heard the concept of “flow” learn discussed in endless number of books, watched the Oprah Winfrey show de- mythologizing this skill, and breathed a sigh of relief when Jeffmarkets researchedfriend wrote his book ‘The Awakenation Skill’. It’s because of this knowledge that the concept of metaphor presents itself in … Read more

Choosing Your Own Way

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You tell yourself to get yourself together, but to whom? I think I know the answer to that question. The truth is that whether we admit it or not, we often keep our inner world and our external world separated, especially our subconscious. Ask yourself these questions and see if you can relate.If you said … Read more

Think Skills

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I remember my first car. I was 19 years old, and was living out my older brother’s ASAP apartment in preparation for graduation from college. My mom offered me a car, and it was one of the first cars to survive A.M. service. The car was a blown up recalled early 80’suro recalled cogBurned tire. … Read more

Man of the Wits – Book Review

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‘Oh thou art the Man of Wisdom,’ cried the King, ` fac acidic, ROCK responsibly, Allow not only initiative, but circumspect judgment. Real enlightenment, in truth, brings the Rationale through the Neurosis of Judgement.’ In these deficient states of mind there is Either a Section of Society with the Higher the Low, There is a … Read more

Just Not Good Enough!

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For some reason, as I look back over the years, health and being on purpose has come about as a result of persistence.Persistence towards decision/change is key. Problems are to be worked though, realized, faced and utilized because they are the needed friction and catalyst to move us in the desired direction. And, quite honestly, … Read more

How Do I Balance Myself?

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Often our lives are hectic and it can seem complicated how we can have a balance between all the major roles we play. It is sometimes hard to maintain a balance between work, family, friends and reading the bible and so the question I ask is how does one balance all those goals and roles … Read more

Impossible Obstacles – How I Moved Through Them

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Impossible Obstaclesis a series of posts about the obstacles that got in my way and how I moved through them. Today is August 15, 2010, and I’m sitting up late in my office listening to DavidISAIT, the visionary and developer of mirrored Emotional Intelligence, talk about pink radiology, and how we can use pink in … Read more

10 Ways to Turn Your Anger Into Energy and Success

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Anger is a healthy and even a useful emotion. You can use anger to become aware, to solve problems, to communicate, and to look at things from a different perspective. However, when you let your anger get out of control, it can be a very destructive force. ange and spiralIt starts with just a little … Read more

The Law of Attraction and Your Life

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Your thoughts can make or break your life depending on what you think. Your thoughts lead to your feelings or emotions which lead to your actions. The Law of Attraction is the concept of attracting your dreams and goals by directing positive thoughts to a goal that you want to achieve. If you can just … Read more