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Just Not Good Enough!

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For some reason, as I look back over the years, health and being on purpose has come about as a result of persistence.Persistence towards decision/change is key.

Problems are to be worked though, realized, faced and utilized because they are the needed friction and catalyst to move us in the desired direction. And, quite honestly, many times they aren’t the only direction we need to be in order to succeed.Trust me, I am talking to myself here!!

They say, “once you make a decision, the universe conspires for your success” or “you can have everything in life you want.”

I have to concur that sounds tons truthful.However, based on my own experience, I can tell this is very untrue!

Here is what I know:

– When we truly are committed to change, if we do not finish what we have committed to, circumstances, people and opportunities will sneak in and compete for thinking hours.We cannot get away from them because we do not have the time or access to work on our plan.Keep in mind, we have to continuously add projects to our goal list at any rate because it is unrealistic to make a good plan and give up on it.We need to get us moving, keep us bouncing and work on it until we get what we want. That is the great part of developing our plan and making a commitment to it!!

– Commitment, love it or lose it. Because of peer pressure, odds and personal control, people will tell you you are wrong-mire, reject or mock you for changing and overriding forget about all those positives you focused on to get through.Write it down otherwise things can get very confusing and depressing. Work on a plan and keep up a positive attitude. Create a magnetic third party press release and a proven schedule for you to work on your plan & soul!Remember, “Let us have the mental strength not to listen to the ever-disc discontent of others.”

– When you are in the process of developing your plan and moving towards it with your whole heart, you will be excited and make strong decisions in the direction to change and be based on each situation and encounter will cause you to be a better and stronger person. You will have the courage to face the people you may disagree with.

It is all good from the ” neighborhoodaper” camp, but, it is more than that!!!

have Continue to young and happy longer than I want to. I know 90% of my ” Must Haves ” will outlive me because of my own inflated ego and my tendency to like myself more than others… I often end up fighting changes and challenges because what I want to do is easy than difficult challenge yikes! I am not seeing the rewards that I will experience as I grow to live With Directness and A Deeper Picture of what I am doing and why. In addition, I am not facing my courage and inner strengths.

Just going it alone will only lead to yet more dissatisfaction, so I am turning to learn and grow from like minded people and genuine growth skills.

I still remember when “going it alone” was easy. It was just something I did without any assistance from anyone. However, I need my Can Do Spirit to overcome my own excuses, my own fears and my own laziness; To be productive I need to overcome internal tra-als and limitations.The obstacles and pitfalls can show up in the most unexpected situations and when you least expect. paranormal signs, events and synchronicity can be out of this world! Don’t underestimate your ability to work on the process of developing your plan knowing what it is you want to become/achieve.

It is true what they say about the “Over Comers” I had to stop pursuing the “magical jeans cousin” ( structure) of “being in a state of mind”.I finally realized I didn’t deserve it,

What I wanted was a stronger sense of personal responsibility of demonstrating “getting up for just being me”.In other words, I wanted to be able to face the things that challenge me to change and strive towards my goals, rather than be programmed into how to live my life. (Most of this is I desired)

Depending on past experiences, environmental factors and your natural beliefs system, these types of decision and/or choices can take some time to change or achieve.However, some people have dreamed about who they wished to become for so long, they can describe in vivid detail the goals/attainments they have had.

“Having dreams, having it all is just an illusion… Don’t lose your hope, Be a Dreamer!!”

You are the only person that have the ability to make the decision, to take a step or direction, to follow through or not. You are the only person that lives in the present.

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