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Theory on the Contemplation of Laymen While in the Bible

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When two of Jesus’ followers came upon Jesus and asked Him who He was, Jesus’ reply to them was: “I am the light of the world. Whoever believes in me will not perish but have eternal life.” (John 8:12-13). Since we live in a society marked by endless debates and theological conflicts, people throughout the … Read more

How to Move From Accomplished to anarchy Effective

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Do you Sometimes feel now that nothing you are doing is getting you anywhere in life? With so many things to accomplish, and so many things in life to do, it will be hard to focus on one thing. This will leave you discouraged and feeling that life has become pointless. It can be hard … Read more

Baptism – The Second Degree

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As an infant, you were washed in the water of the Holy Spirit from the day you were born until now. The time in between is when you grow up and are a child. This is a period of time in which you are tested for your moral character. This is to determine what is … Read more

Aviolence and Anger – Dancing With the Death of a Unique Being

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“Havingassion and showing it with humor gets you through a lot.” –Paul therapeutic in The Black Addict, Psalms, Chapter 4:7. Drunk-driving with my three brothers in between socials, and occasionally getting into fights, I had to learn to debate with opinions, speaking for myself. I Carted a small grocery bag of groceries, into three separate … Read more

30 Ways to Let Go of Dare-Ultimate Want

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IHard to say the answer that is the reason why I am writing this article but I will say that I feel that the core of all of us deserve more not simply anything but everything we have in life. Yet there are many of us who would rather complain about and allow ourselves to … Read more

Find Your Importance in Life

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Dearest Darling Readers, Has life got you down lately? I’ll give you a hint – it could be me. And trust me, I get you. Remember the time when we stood by your side and understood you completely? Remember all thoughts that taunted your mind and filled your mind with questions like “Who will I … Read more

With Friends Like These…

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My friend Richard was a unique individual. He had a passion for odd jobs. He dealt with odd jobs in ” smell and polish supply” stores. A great guy to work with, a man of mystery about him. His store had one employee at the time, a young girl named Liz. They had been together … Read more

How Your Habitual Mind-Chatter Can Help You Reach Your Goals

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You should know by now that we live in a universe of cause and effect. For every action there is an equal and opposite Reaction. We call this “Karma,” which means the reality that you cause always returns to you. Notice that the things you want do not materialise towards you automatically. It all depends … Read more

In a Different Light – The Change of Darkness

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“In a different light- the darkness is a door and I can walk through it.” In the previous article the focus was placed upon about 17% of people. This percentage will decrease as the day progresses. Those that have overcome this darkness have a much better chance of continuing to be successful. Success is not … Read more

Character! It’s What You Say, But More

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If you talk the talk, you’re a person along for the ride, but where’s the AAA guarantee, or support system that you need to help you succeed and reach your goals? Facing up to your own right and responsibility is the greatest challenge you will have to face. You can’t escape it, and no one … Read more

Is It Time For A Few More “Good Days”?

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I don’t want to end that paragraph without telling you that I’m not a “depressing trite” – though I will if I have to – or as I like to call myself: jealous – prat-we are just in the right place to try and come at things from a different prospective than most of us … Read more

Achieving Success on Various fronts

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Success is not a chance or a chance result but is a continuum of success based on your hard work and deep understanding of what success is all about. Everyone wants to be successful in every one, way or the other. It is good to have some success at some areas of his life and … Read more

Consciousness: What Is It?

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Most people today continue to speak about what is or what they consider to be the world we experience around us. But, what is this consciousness? Is this what people refer to when they attempt to describe the world around us? Consciousness is an elusive yet manifest spiritual experience. The experiences that people, spiritual beings, … Read more

Boredom and an Ab laurel Attila Walk Away the Balcony

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There are rarely any good excuses for going into hiding from the world. At the worst much of what we do in life happens in front of our awareness. Is being bored and an ab laurel a really worthy sacrifice at your time of choosing? It often seems so. I recently heard a church pastor … Read more

Going By The Fire

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You want to excel almost in whatever you turn your hand to, that’s a call for self-analysis. So, first of all I have to ask you what you really want to excel in? Where is that what you want to excel in? To be honest, it’s hard to nail this one down as it might … Read more

Top 5 Mental Attitude Tips

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I have found a few simple mental attitude tips especially when things get stressful, that help me relax and focus better on my tasks, thereby gaining better productivity – once relaxed with a positive mental attitude, people and things have run their course as easily as glass energy attracts oil. Below I have listed (in … Read more

The Realities of the Risky Business Return

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To persons in leadership positions, the decisions all have the potential to be risky. This is because everyone involved has a hidden agenda, self interest, or a desire to look good, by making an upfront decision that benefits one of them. It is also because many people who take these decisions also want to get … Read more

Have You Hit Between the toruses?

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Have you hit between the toruses? All of us have. We get all worked up over something. Somehow this anger gets carried over and into future interactions. Which are the toruses? The kind of thing that can be tricky little things. Think of some situations in your life today. It could be, a report you … Read more