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What Are My Options in Life?

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In life, there are two main options. We can choose the positive or choose the negative. We cannot choose between the two. We will get both results. Each option has its advantages and disadvantages. Let’s not forget that, “Life is ten percent what happens to you and ninety per cent how you react to it.” ( tom purcell)

Don’t get me wrong. It is true that we can not control your life- destiny, or the future. We can not change the fact that certain events and situations will happen. We cannot change the course of life, nor can we control or alter the course of our future. We cannot change nor will we be able to control the outcomes of the things that are happening around us. The only thing we can do is accept any outcomes.

The good news is that we have control over our individual and personal actions, attitude, and behavior while at a personal level. We can change our obstacles, our current situation, and our circumstances no matter the outer circumstances or events that happened yesterday, last year, or 10,000 years ago.

Ok, here are your options:

1. Rein for some reason for getting some more

2. Surrender to the next set of events

3. Leave some event, situation, circumstance or event

4. Hope for the best but accept the worst

5. Rein for some reason for wanting more

If we want to shoot from the hip and take a chance, we can do that. We can change our attitude by)!

Remember, we are not ourselves, we are our emotions.

Find a mentor or advisor in your field of interest and you will find that someone in the business or possibilities you are seeking, will be there. Make a commitment to yourself and love it.

From this day forward, begin to look at your life experiences and circumstances for what they are – obstacles and challenges. Everyone has them, and your attitude towards them will help to determine your next steps. And always focus on those few important answers that our religions call “where is my God” or and “who will fill this needs my God”

I believe that the only real war we have is the war between our self-image and our sub-personalities. When we love our self, we settle within our self and those things that we seek to control are automatically controlled by the state of our mind, we feel safe from the pains of our fears. For example, we may look at some of that dream home, say it is too expensive, save enough for a down payment, or buy another car and the issues drive us crazy. To some of these people, buying a new car is just another impossible dream. To them, it must be. There is no sub-personality that can tell them NOT, the dream of their self-image is stronger than their need to solve their problems.

However, to those people who are able to successfully generate their self-image, and believe in self, and know themselves well enough to be able to use those I enjoy, there will be no need to need to battle anymore. They will value the things that are of high use to them and they will be free to enjoy and have fun.

And I invite you to take a look at your life and others. It may help to get a close and personal look at your life and reality. I guarantee it will help make the decision for change more not only to have more things, but more in value and in life.

There is no incidentally.

Don’t forget to do some enforcement of those pillars of character and character building!

You are your own abode, now

Days to come will arrive

in your life

Blessings,

Shhh

Although we may live together

in this life,

we are together eternally

You are my wife,

I love you more than anything

I would surrender with joy

to you

But then I love you more than myself

I would surrender

with joy

I love you more than my life

I would surrender

with joy

I love you more than my mind

I would surrender

with joy

I love you more than to just live

I would surrender

to you

in joy

Will you do it?

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