howbebetter.com is reader-supported. When you buy through links on our site, we may earn an affiliate commission.

How the Way You Think Creates Your Reality

black and red floral happy birthday signage

Everything and everyone you think about in your life, you are creating. That is a fact, a hard fact.

Everything you see in your world, including yourself, you have attracted to you with your thoughts.

Our thoughts either make us rich or poor, happy or sad, powerful or powerless.

Our thoughts travel to our destination. Some of those thoughts we have had since childhood, like “I’m attractive to girls”, “People find me attractive”, “I’m unstoppable in business”, “I am wonderful”, “Women appreciate me”, “Men appreciate me”, “I’m great at relationships”, “I have money”, “I’m successful”, “Wealth generates more wealth”, “I’m happy”, “We have money to spend.”

These thoughts and beliefs affect your reality.

Your reality is nothing but the culmination of the thoughts you think.

I have wonderful, creative, original and diverse thoughts and create wonderful, creative, original and diverse realities. My thoughts attract wonderful, creative, original and diverse realities.

Trying to avoid that which you fear only postponing it arriving. You’re really distracting yourself. The reality of avoiding is always less than the reality of facing.

When you start to face what you fear, you cannot hide it. It takes you out of your comfort zone and places you in a position where you cannot escape. You may even lose yourself in the process instead of facing it.

Remember that our thoughts create our reality. When we don’t have worthy thoughts, we don’t have worthy reality.

Remember, too, that today is a new day, always a new day. So is yesterday and tomorrow. What is most important is to find today as the beginning of a new tomorrow and all the days that will follow. When you gain a sense of love, freedom and power for the present, you’ll also gain a sense of love, freedom and power for the future, too.

It has always been my intention to enlighten you to the power of your thoughts through the spiritual work I do. My intent is to assist you with this most precious of all gifts, to live a life filled with ease, grace and joy. I am here to show you how to access your inner wealth.

One of my favorite quotes:”We are what we think. All that we are arises as a result of what we have thought.” -Buddha

Remember, that whenever you think about something you do so simultaneously giving voice to your thoughts and giving birth to new thoughts. You choose your thoughts. You get to choose your thoughts.

In a certain way, this presents a dual conflict: on the one hand, you want to have the thoughts of the past to bring you courage, new hope, motivation and vigor. On the other hand, you also want to create new thoughts from new vision.

So how do you arise with new, new thoughts? You must be aware of your thoughts. If you are conscious of your thoughts, you will know that one of them is not in alignment with your vision for your life. When you easily catch this thought as a new thought of your past, you will be able to switch it around with the switch you’ve been using to create negative thoughts.

Then, and perhaps especially now, when you have encountered or are facing a very difficult new situation, such as the loss of a job, or failure in a business, or want to change your appearance, what have you been thinking about?

Is it “I can’t” or “I can”?

Are you thinking ‘I won’t’ or ‘I can’?

If your thoughts become more and more negative, you will find it difficult to create a positive new vision regardless of how much it is worth working towards. Instead of creating an inspiring positive new vision, you will be thinking ‘I can’t’. Even if you say in the positive: “I want to look for another job”, you will automatically be thinking “I can’t”.

When you create a new vision, you have to let go of the past. If you let go of the past, you will allow yourself to imagining what you can do differently tomorrow. You can’t focus on what has been done. That brings you failure. I can’t stand where I’m at right now.

black camera