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Are You Having Those Days?

Have you been having those days? Perhaps, if so, then allow me to pass on some tips and approaches that might help you overcome them and get back on track.

In this social media age we often receive e-mail and texts that say something like “Can we just get back to reality?” It’s not my intention to write a novel on these matters, but the most reassuring thing to say to those whodoeslose their focus; is to remind them that you are in charge ofyour life: Not anyone else.

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**1** Always focus on what you need to do rather than what you don’t fear

This involves mentally generating the imagery of the desired result and the associated feelings of positive emotion aligned to the desired result.

Visualization is vital because it is the fuel forcing the inside to manifest in the outside**.

Nothing that has been made or created comes without the will to see it in its final form. The moment we surrender our ability to see a thing as done, it forlorn.

Duringward, hold your body in a dead stiff position, expelling all the stale, feeble, tired, lamentable, senses and images until things look almost too normal to grasp. Relate what is happening with any feeling of true emotional passion so that you are able to paint a beautiful picture of the end result and then ultimately, of the whole situation.

Flood the mind with the ‘feeling’ of having the desired result and indeed it is already a reality to you!

**2** Allow the emotion of preparation and attention to our desired goal

It is usually during times of increased stress and frustration that we become dis-empowered to create what we want. We can choose to do this or we can choose not to.

A lack of desire is caused by terrified fear based educational or company environments as well as unbridled exposure to unrealistic media expectations.

In single minded focused intent, we reflect on our desires; not what we think we can achieve. I am too old, too young, not educated enough, and have no experience in any field of endeavor to even begin.

Freedom, financial freedom and fulfillment begins in our minds. We have to copy a magic wand; we can create what we want.

Ap complexes, fears and lack of belief in our ability to create greatness, money and fortune in our life begin within and are reflected in a negative attitude and forceful thoughts.

A lack of belief of competence empowers many because we create mental exercises from fear based images of ourselves with no inspiration for what it is we really want. The exactuster of this gives the power to our testament of limitations. Immediately, this thought is challenged by the very essence of our own potential.

Confidence, a timid person will ‘go with the flow’ or, more accurately, a person that is too frightened to take positive action will ride in the fast lane to nowhere.

The reign of fear in our perceived inability to take action, or the premature unleashing of our potential, empowers energy to become stagnant and restricted and resistant to our intent to create self-expression.

We must determine to take positive action to uncover and correct the corruption in our minds that engages fear to hold in our lives.

Without action, everything is a little slower in supreme expedience.

**3** Create a healthy balance of your labors

If you are struggling with wondering how long you will have to keep working for your dreams, firstly, get confident in the fact that you WILL get your dream, then get turned on to the depth of the reasons.

We will have to labour for our dreams, if only we are willing and determined enough to do so. The greatest gift you can possibly give yourself is to be as enthusiastic as you possibly can so that when the opportunity comes you are ready and eager to take care of it.

The time of joy that you get to realize the fruits of your labors comes from working with full concentration, with full purpose, with full force, enthusiasm and fulfillment.

It’s up to you to determine to remember working at top speed and full speed, with full attention and intention.

Only you can decide if these actions will in any way benefit you.

Today, I give you some pointers in preparing yourself for the next task and the eventual fulfillment in your acting upon it.

What in the whole world is a time limit? It’s whatever you determine it to be, which has a direct effect on the time you allow…

Obstacles come in use of time. Dreams will come to them as so many others. It’s up to you to decide how you will deal with these opportunities before they arise.

There will be times in your life when rather than see what is before you, you will want to move away from what is before you. This is not what I mean.

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