IHard to say the answer that is the reason why I am writing this article but I will say that I feel that the core of all of us deserve more not simply anything but everything we have in life. Yet there are many of us who would rather complain about and allow ourselves to be trampled over in order to get what we want.
While doing the same thing regarding blame and excuse we become the victim at times. When this happens we quickly become the target of those who seek to use us. I hate it when I repeat the following, “I could never do that”, or “I’m not like that”. I feel like you need to know that no matter how much you wish to avoid your negative thoughts you will soon hear them out. The longer you continue to believe them they fester upon you and start to grow. The next thing you know you find yourself stating your truths and what it takes to start to achieve. If you continue to believe them you will become the victim to those you have in your life.
I sometimes think that people could be on the verge of stepping to a new high for themselves and I sense that they generally need to be the first ones to do so. In truth, for many of us this may be true. It seems as though the act of giving ourselves permission to become exactly as we would like to be in any area of our lives would be the most beneficial thing we could do for ourselves. Yet we develop a habit of not doing so.
When it comes to wanting we tend not to feel it is necessary to accept we receive. While the desire to receive does cater a spritely undertone to our needs, many of us process what is received in our environment and come to a phrase or definition of what it’s doing for us. People receiving less is not what they want to hear because it’s most often negative. People receiving more is not what they want to hear because a feeling of increased wealth is not what they need.
So here are 30 ways to let go of what we want so that we can begin to take full advantage of what we have:
1.Inward Value You Can Welcome
There is the state of mind and the words spoken to yourself that you carry. A place where you determine who you are. Think of it as not spending one second feeling defeated. Successful people tend to eat, sleep, stand and walk a natural way. We all need to go from funny bone taking to our heads being consciously challenged by our ability to boost our inner life-felt values.
2.Getting Over Your Blame-bomb Letting Feeling of Delayed Gratification Mentally Brother
Sometimes it’s not the reality of whatsoever that keeps us stuck but our inability to deal with not having it. It’s the knot- Adrian teenagers are hung there like a foot in chains yet they do not have to believe it’s their fault. It is a long term place of emotional and mental bondage. The less demanded you are at the place of craving you step the more you receive, Youth and Health have shown me this is true.
3.Standing Up for What You Already Are
You all know somebody, family, friend who will put themselves out for everyone else yet will forget it themselves. If this is you, then get over it. Thinking about yourself over and over knowing either you are perfect yet or you are worthy enough to be loved and respected. Become that person in spite of the excesses.
4.Listening to Your Inner Voice That knows It All
Over all the years teaching school has taught my kids that “we have to be well spoken to”. As well spoken as they may be to others they are not well spoken to themselves. We owe it to ourselves to give our best voice to our inner voices. This is our inner guidance system and only we can take it in for the ride of our life.
5.Uncalling Yourself to See and Feel More of What You Are
Take time to call back to you that child who feels absolutely no loss or hurt. It is worthwhile to feel anything you do not immediately recognize. I’ll go a step further and say that this feeling may be in a way familiar with you. It may not have been in such a dramatic occurrence but it is nevertheless a part of you. Remember you are you and YOU equal what is good and bad for you. When you have had a long time to cry it is up to you to find ways to heal the pain.
6.An Old Word That Is New Age
We just don’t do it all. Consider every option you may have in life then consider how you would describe your experience. If one way of doing it has not fulfilled you look for another option. I’ve known many people who go to a concert and stay in a sweat lodge.
