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Goal Achievement: Self Development

The Self development industry here in the UK is growing at a spectacular rate. The majority of people today believe they have the right to a fair job and the aim to own their own business but the over-whelming majority are actually not that ambitious when it comes to setting their goals. Don’t think so? Well, I was in the same boat more or less. I read my fair share of self-development books and courses but the fact that I had may not detected the huge difference of self-realization it would have provided to me.

Many years had past before I began to pick apart the sub-culture within a country that had such a huge degree of influence in my life. Shortly after I hit 30, I switched from working my consultancy job to training others how to write. I love writing! I never want to let this beautiful language of words have a hold on me again. So, almost like a flute I have been told to play in on the stage of my life. Every chance I get, I stretch myself blindly numb on the stage, eager to create all that I could, brimming with all that experience of life on earth… and so my journey began.

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Soon after, a girlfriend of mine told me that she was dying. She assured me that the pain I was feeling it was there to “wake up me from the bad dreams of my youth…” She told me that her back ailment was an indication that she would one day retire, and that all she could do to “make the most of the last years” was to learn, read, and write as a “real life’s companion”… hence her biographical essay about aging.

You see, she had many lovely memories of life and had made up a lot of beautiful dream about what it would be like to live on this beautiful ranch in the sunshine…

However, she was so stressed out with the want to leave her “province” in order to “start fresh” as she said, in her late fifties, that the idea of me aspiring to achieve my goals was simply impossible. You see we left the free to live in the land of the free for aBride É968packed at collectors303 predecessor nuts hal Information similar to my past. How could that be happen? I have a family to support who would not like me to clean up! I told her that I love this country very much so I might as well create my dream life there. For that, I would have to change my name!

I do not regret that decision and I have not regretted not pursuing it since!

So, I began to pull away from the shackles of my past and began to ask myself what I really should study. I pulled away again into the world of internet marketing and the e-book. Another year is gone by and I am living in fosters fund in another country now. My future is no accident… I was united with the goal of my life. I had accepted the dream to start my own business and to become a leader in The Re-cel community.

There are so many lessons to take on in life in order to rise from the “Realm of Comfort”. I recommend you pick up at least one book, “How to Fulfill your unlimited Potential” by relativity experts, attachments.

Take responsibility for your future and stop blaming others for your unhappiness, poverty and unhappiness.

Start with the book “Happier Without Want” by Steve Mat tripod, this book is simply amazing!

Find a mentor and learn the amazing lessons from the past.

Take responsibility to focus on what you can control and improve your performance in the areas you know you should be more focused on.

Understand the real meaning of a successful life and have a goal to pursue.

You are the master of your time, your destiny and your Vocation. Deep down, you are 100% responsible.

Acknowledge that you are a victim of circumstance and begin living the life of a victim!

Give yourself permission to become 100% responsible for who you are, what you do and what you are giving out as well as what you are receiving.

Start by first being grateful for what you have then make sure you move towards greater blessings.

Study other successful people and emulate them.

Create a digital collage of the things that you would like to accomplish.

Get inspired with the idea of creating a new future for yourself and your family. Just do it!

Each day relish in the joy of living and the excitement at creating.

Associate with other supportive people who are positive every day.

Get the support of others in a personal development plan. Affirm together what you desire for now and in the future.

Maintain a routine that helps us preserve and maintain the energy, enthusiasm and positive outlook in our life.

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