Trust yourself and Love yourself is such an easy concept for most of us to understand. Yet for many it is a concept that seems very hard to live by on a day to day basis. Lots of us know we have to find happiness within ourselves. Yet so many of us find it very hard to Trust ourselves.
Have you ever taken a really hard inventory of your own self and the results that you’ve produced through the way you think, talk, and act? If you haven’t, you may be surprised to find just how much misery and distress (self-imposed or not) you are creating on a daily basis through the way you think and how difficult you are trying to Trust yourself. Once you start Trusting yourself you will find healing and happiness very quickly. In fact, it will be impossible to not Trust yourself.
Have you ever heard of the phrase, “If you love yourself then you will trust yourself”? Now, take a second and think of someone you love so much you would do almost anything for that person. Think of a time when it was so painful for you that you felt that you wouldn’t be able to carry your own things, let alone carry your own car. Did you cry, yell, and/or curse a little? Do you remember the feeling, the pain, or the all consuming feeling of abandonment, rejection, confusion or just how lonely you felt?
Now think of someone you Trust so much you would give love to the other person completely for no other reason than just because. Your thoughts wouldn’t be the anguish that you have felt. Your emotions would be full of the self we all yearn for and the release of all the toxic emotions that have been polluting your thoughts and polluting your life these past years, not to mention what it is they were polluting you and living for.
What is it that you fed your mind over the years? Were your thoughts that you had to sacrifice your thoughts, dreams, and feelings or hide from yourself your money worries, fear or anger? When you were looking around for something to do that would solve your financial problems, did you need the trust in yourself to be able to identify the real solution to your problem? Hiding and being everything for everyone or the person you are seems so easy and comfortable. I think this is for many of us. But is it?
In today’s world spirals point in to areas that need to be Accountability and Self-Accountability and being a good lover, friend, brother, sister, mother, father, friend, etc. has to be what you do for yourself and for those you branch out of love for. Your ability to Trust yourself, when you give up it to Trust that you deserve, learn how to have Compassion for yourself and others through Compassion for your own self and others. Let’s face it, People Love to Watch You Leave…W-I-E, but do you?
The more you love Self, the more Trust you will demonstrate in your life and your finances. You will learn how to Live True Wealth Consciousness. There is neither way to Sociology, how it’s defined in teaching self-esteem and self-actualization. Society and our environment, has always tried to make the outside story of living worry free, and if living with stress and self-imposed guilt is what you want, then you can have it in no time. No need to put out your BP meditation CD’s -> more hormones are the reason for your stress, not money. That right there you see is the only reason for stress, anger, guilt. I need to ask you, and I defer to you…are you truly happy? Many people are but the truth is…not true happy. This is why you have to be open to taking responsibility for your life and your thoughts and your actions. You need to be ready to move out of theavoidancemode. If only you were ready.
You have to cut the ties with world. Until you have you will fail to Trust self. To Trust self you will have to say no more often and yes more often to what you really want in life. Unless you can forgive yourself it is possible you will never Trust yourself again.
