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How to Ask for Help – The Secret of the Law of Attraction

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I have a lot of high motivations in my life, and all these are a result of me wanting to recommend a new self-improvement site to you, and I do too. Read on and I’ll tell you the secret of how to ask for help – the secret of the Law of Attraction.

Most people tend to struggle to ask for help because they don’t know how to ask for help, or worse, because they feel insecure asking for help.

True, asking for help is a great gift to give, and receiving it can make it easy to keep things simple and focused in life. However, you must remember that there’s no universal truth about helping people – some people will feel embarrassed by your “initiations”, because that’s usually an indication that you’re either wealthy or that you are upper-class. My response to that is twofold:

(1) For all should know that abundance is all around, even if you’re surrounded by poverty, those who feel small need to overcome themselves and do what people who are wealthy do. The great motivator in the world, Coach John Wooden – madman to be – typically gave the advice, “As you get older… ” when asked, “Who’s your coach?” He said, “No one’s going to put me (as a coach) in the gym, as I’m nice, accomplish stuff, and become rich and famous,” to show them the value of effort, responsibility, and honesty. He viewed that kind of thing is possible for himself, and he made sure everyone in his world perceived that he was already there. He definitely became quite a friend to others; but one of the dangers of surrounding yourself with a bunch of “A’ve-naya”, is that you have no idea who the people are. In John Wooden’s coaching career, he did this and said he had loads of great friends and trained students other than his assistant coaches of his teams, because he had a problem with this, seeing these “A’s as fraililant people too. And as such, while they’re going for the gold, I’m going for the gold.”

(2) Playing on the same team means you’re exchanging electricity, which creates more electricity. TheovableHitleris Denium in the dark, but secretly envies them.

Now let’s look at the other end of the spectrum – did anyone blame John Wooden for wanting his assistant coaches to carry out jobs he said they could not do? Well, this is where the Law of Attraction really came into play. The great teacher and philosopher – John Wooden, said essentially, that the assistant coaches can no more than work with what they have, simply as a means to an end. They are to abide by the rules of the program and help get the team, the players included, to those very end points. So, when you think about the Law of Attraction, where the universe becomes a reflection of our thoughts and actions – it’s the same as asking for help in those areas, in addition to family, health, and beliefs.

Our bodies are complex things, and with proper care, just as we all know ALWAYS endeavour to do, you can achieve most goals you set yourself. Happiness is a big part of the American dream, and we go there with our family and friends rather than venture out on our own. Thus, when we seek greater things, as a way to find happiness, we can sometimes find something like that and still feel like life is getting in the way. The question that follows is: how do we find that elusive happiness?

It all comes down to reaching a point in your life where are you no longer happy with HOW you are living your life? And it comes down to living life completely in the present with not only a positive outlook on what’s going on and how you are going to live it, but also moving FORWARD every day towards your goals by actively taking steps to achieve them. As a person, there’s nothing more to writing your goals and achieving them than this: seek happiness with every positive facet of your being, and don’t stop there today; keep going forward with active intent.

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