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The Nature of True Self

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We normally think of our true self as something that is “out there” or “in here”. We think of it as different from who we really are. But if you look at the universe, you will see that this is false.

Our universe lives in a field of love. You are actually all the love that the universe is. The more you can remember this, the more you will experience true connection with and honor of your true self.

The reality of who we all are then, is a vast, seamless, quantum field of love. We are all the same in this field of love, because we are all one. This then makes our connection to each other and to the divine as seamless. True connection then comes down to the quality of our presence, which is filtered through our consciousness, our sensitivity, and our awareness, the observer.

Each of us is a complex blend of physical, emotional, mental, spiritual, and psychic patterns. Most of us are dysfunctional. We have all the symptoms of unmet needs, wants, desires, and needs to be fulfilled. We may have all the reasons to be sad and depressed, but we feel hopeless, helpless, and desperate. Because of this, we end up more out of ourselves.

This is not like a great double-theory, where you think, “Okay, there’s two of us, and the outcome is either they’ll treat us right or we’ll treat them wrong”. It’s not just a single truth either. It’s the story of two people in an illusion of two fates.

Chances are, you come into the world with a set point for how you will relate to the greater field of love. You either believe that you’re represent a divineThomas or a devil underneath. Here, you are in two consciousnesses:

These are the only two consciousnesses you are in. When you get Affected, it throws a wrench into thatdicharge Ride. This is why feeling empowered, when you can feel good and act good, will be important in this revelation – because it’s only through authentic feeling that the light bulb goes on. It’s in experiencing moments of good that we feel: What really matters about my life? What really matters about this human family that continues to come back time after time?

When we can embrace the duality of feeling and experience, we can begin to understand the power of our awareness to transform not just others, but our own sense of being.

We are connected to all duality, but we have all the choice to see it as a personal and collective illusion or as human power.

The ideal side of the equation is: We create the world. A great power. The other side has the choice to be transformed. This means that even if we have all the power of the universe, we create how we relate to that power. This is all our power, the ability to choose to be the Evans when we can choose to be the Evans’ of this planet.

When we are able to grasp that the duality of consciousness and feeling exists all that besides our passion and aggression exists, that this world of duality can be transformed, we can relate to one another, not as apersona, but as a whole of shared consciousness. When we can see the truth that we’re all the beings who include our lower and higher self, not separate by a self that we identify as being their, then we can shift from a sense of having a piece of the puzzle of the human plan, to existing in full engagement of the divine plan.

So what is human, but a veil we live in that we can, when we see it reflecting the light or not, affirm or deny? Many ways to look at the shadow; including the light. When we see the light, we become more and more conscious of the duality and we see that we do in fact co-create with the universe in ways that may not be all-knowing. The human becoming conscious will eventually expand itself and include not just the physical and emotional comings and goings, but the greater quantum field of all of all possibilities.

When we can see ourselves as the totality of all of who we have been, is, and will ever be, we ascend more and more to connecting with the whole field, to the divine. Peace, love, and joy are only states that lie outside human frequency and perceptions. To bridge the gap between perception and presence are the spiritual practices that give one the opportunity to realize, to feel, and be more divine simultaneously in the human, and the macrocosm. This is not a paradox in nature. It just is. It is in the connections that dis-connect us, the transitions, that the divine cannot touch us, and where the greater part of us thrives. This is your Safe Space.

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