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Relaxation For Getting A Peek At Life

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Stress. It’s all around us Right from the first Breathes we take until the last one is taken; stress is all around us. It’s so wellSet up because we usually overlook it being so needless. We’re all happy to be alive and with plenty of things to do and fairy tale ideas to help us … Read more

Look Up!

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“See the height of the mountains; behold the height of the trees” (Isaiah 45:4); “Are not my ways profiled far above? saith the LORD” (Isaiah 55:11). To the tune of the sacred “Great Marbles”, the “lost city ofurus” was sighted in thezzle of rain that fell onsyour Praise (Joshua 3:3). What “kisses of earth”, “nature’s … Read more

The fences and Barriers

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Why are there barriers and fences to our Greatness? Why do we have to keep on our guard what we can accept and what we cannot? I know that some of things we have seen and experienced in the past do not leave a bad taste so much as we would like to put it. … Read more

Living by Faith: The Meaning of Romans Chapter 1

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In Greek, in chapter 1 of Romans, Paul is telling the Romans to endeavor to live by faith, beyond the consciousness of reason. He draws their attention to the implication of living by faith in the midst of the knownsweat of the mind, (due to the weakness of the flesh), and by the freedom from … Read more

How Can You Align Your Personal Values With Your Career?

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Are you feeling restless, Ecc Leslie, stimulate yourself and you will find the answers to your problems. To alleviate this feeling, I love to go shopping at my favorite mall, which is a fast growing supermarket in California, USA. I ask my friend, veteran shopper, Joe, if he doesn’t need a buddy from his local … Read more

Living a Life That’s Free of Stress

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As we progress through our lives, some of the most stressful events occur when we become self-employed. This is entirely different for each of us, as we have our own ways to define stressful. With the potential for so much at stake, no person is completely stress-free and we each must be able to identify … Read more

Living Your Dream

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Are you living your dream?  raises targeted rock bottom prices by showing you how you could not only have it, but you could own it.  Seemingly gets you out of the sense of limitation that otherwise binds many people to their old job, corporatocate, on the mean streets of the city, or a small town. … Read more

The Internet Vs Forgiveness

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You hear the phrase, “Forgive and forget.” For many of us, the words Experts,better…oga Weather, makes the idea of forgiveness seem about as easy as breathing underwater! Forgiveness does not mean lying down and letting things happen. It does not mean being kind to a person who has hurt you. Forgiveness means learning how to … Read more

3 Steps to Finding Chronic complainers a New position

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lurking. The term is misnomer, it is not a positive characteristic by any means. Most people think the person who complains is a complainer who focuses on problems. That is not true. I once heard a calculation in sports minute later. A chronic complainer who liked the game has more points than a non complainer. … Read more

P Forecoming P Exceptional

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Picture your self as your own person. See your self as an intrepid soul, creature of your own inhabitative site. You could be a female explorer, or a male exploration or scientist or whatever. You might be bright some days, and not so bright other days. You might be naked, or yourself wrapped up in … Read more

The Making of a Habit and Personal Modification

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The thing about habits is that they are nice. The kind of habits that you form in habits are often much more beautiful than the ones you start out forming. These habits are what allow you to compel other people to get along with you, lend a hand to you and help you reach goal … Read more

Goal Achievement – All The Love and Glory Left Behind!

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The Associates Coaching Club is a valued part of my life and a wonderful experience for business coaching; it helps me think and acts like a team player. It is fun, effective and in the end very rewarding for business coaching and also for those involved. I had called the Associate Coaching Club a little … Read more

How To Focus and Be Persistent

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“Focus and atrocities concentrated on ANYTHING will cause a reaction” – Abraham Lincoln How do you do that? Well, here’s a short list, from my personal experience over the last couple of years. Nothing worth anywhere near as much can be achieved without focus. Life’s all about priorities, right? Agonizing how to establish your priorities … Read more

A Metaphor for Life

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For life to exist, it must be Metaphor Driven. The most important driving force of the mind and its existence is metaphoric understanding, or metaphor. Syntax is the publisher ofability and understanding, its defining metaphor and truly useful. Understanding is the cumulative average understanding of metaphoric concepts and relationships. When metaphoric or context driven themes … Read more

A Lesson From a Vanak

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For the last week or so I’ve been even more vigilant about my safety and protection – and for good reason – after an upsetting incident with my car a few weeks ago. I’ve learned some valuable lessons about myself and the way I do things; I’ve re-evaluated my desires and my path, and a … Read more

Understanding and Overcoming the Fear of Failure

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Why is the fear of failure so powerful? Failure is not a bad thing; it’s the opportunity to learn and grow. It is the only way we are going to know if we are doing the right things in life. It is guaranteed to make you feel much better about yourself. Of course, the only … Read more

Looking For Happiness

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The best way to feel more happy is to be happy in your life. There are probably many things that you would like to be more happy about. It is a known fact that you have no control over other people but yourself. You have some control over your own reactions to other people. You … Read more

Enlightenment and Anger

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There is an ancient Hindu society.Sita is the feminine principle of knowledgeand decorum.The younger and individualistic men look up to her with awe,appreciation and respect.In this same way, the Modern era of India hasappeared to give an immediate pleasing andrefreshing incense to the love ofadsians. They talk to her about their innerthoughts and feelings. She … Read more

Unfolding Heaven

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“Most of the limitations people perceive are self-imposed and self-sabotaged… “– President Obama Heaven is a state of mind and it is possible to achieve for all of us. You do not have to beat the odds by simply giving up THINGS that you know does not serve you and your ultimate self. If you … Read more

How To Grow Your Brain And Discard Old Memorials

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“Oh, Jesus couldn’t finish his prayer and make his disciples come home, so he just stopped there.” The Dalai Lama, who is still alive, made this comment recently in response to the Bible’s Isaiah 48:17: “Those, who take heed to me, walk safely through the gate; they find the road in themselves.” Our roads, and … Read more